Such is life

31 July 2011

My life is in such a whirl wind at the moment. Me and my boy are soon entering a long distance relationship... as he's about to leave Helsinki to study in Oulu, which is about 800 kilometres away. Luckily it's still the same country but the distance is long enough for us not being able to meet up every weekend. I'm having such mixed feeling about this - I'm so happy he's finishing his studies but living the daily life without him by my side is going to be hard. At least now it all feels so overwhelming. So this week we've been packing his stuff and making room for my new flatmate who moved in yesterday. But I'm so so happy my flatmate isn't just anyone. She's one of my best friends whom I've known since I was 6. So I can totally trust her to be there for me. I'm kind of looking forward to all the girly shenanigans we'll get up to because she's so fun to be around. So I guess things aren't really that bad, but change is always a bit scary. This will be a totally new chapter for us. Have any of you been in a long distance relationship? Any advice would be welcome :) xxx mervi

Our living room being transferred to my room. I'm really happy with it!

17 lovely messages:

Remy said...

Hi Mervi! I am in a LDR. My girlfriend is in the UK while I'm in the US.

LDRs can be tough, but if both of you have the strength, love & faith in each other to make the relationship work, then the distance will not matter any more.

Keep looking forward to that goal of when you'll be short-distance again, (our short-distance goal is be such by the time we're 25.) also just keep the relationship as it was even before it turned into a LDR and it should be smooth sailing.

I also can recommend to you Lovers Far Away on Livejournal: http://loversfaraway.livejournal.com/ and Loving From A Distance http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/ as excellent sources of support & information. Good luck & best wishes! Do not hesitate to contact me, either! ^^

Nnenna said...

Ohh Mervi, this is such a big change and I can see how it can seem frightening, but I just know things will be ok! And it so great that you have your best friend there to turn to- sending you a big hug! xoxo

Yasmeen said...

No worries, you'll get through it! I was finishing my thesis in Amsterdam while my boyfriend was in Australia. It was tough, yes -- we were FAR apart! But we communicated really regularly, and we knew that ultimately an end was in sight. Just do your best to stay positive and make time for each other. Good luck! xx

Kristy Lynn said...

hi sugar! two things:

A: write letters.. real letters. send photos in them with snippets from magazines, etc.. things you find that remind you of each other. spray it with your perfume (i know, cheesy - but welcomed).

B: Adventures with a new girly roomie?? Fun! drink lots of wine, dress up in ridiculous outfits and pine for your love. also, celebrate your new living sitch.

Good luck lovely!

cb said...

you guys will make it work and hopefully it won't be too long that you guys will be away. glad your new flatmate is some you love dearly, you guys will have such a blast!

xo,
cb

Tabadoo said...

I have the same print in my bedroom! Love it! Long distance is tough but as long as you both are wanting and willing to see it through you'll be ok and better for having experienced it.

Krystal said...

girl, mark and i had one for like 4 years, it was crazy but lots of work!

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