From where I stand

3 January 2012

Hey sweethearts! I feel like I've been a bit absent lately and there's a reason for it. A lot has been going on in my personal life for the last couple of months. A lot of good but also things not all so good. I try to keep my blog a happy place for you to visit, but I feel like this is something I need to share with you. We ended our 4 year relationship last week. It wasn't an easy decision, but I think it was the right one. I won't go into details here, but let's say that now is the time that we both need to gain ourselves back and find the happiness within. At the moment I'm having such mixed feelings, that I'm just going to take it a day at a time. Some days it might get a bit quieter here on the blog, but I promise I'm not going anywhere. I just need to regroup my head, so bare with me!

Ps. It snowed yesterday :)


23 lovely messages:

Craftzilla said...

Oh dear that's hard stuff! Take all the time you need and spend time with friends & doing lovely things, and I know you'll figure it all out. I've been in the same position before, and I know it can seem insurmountable to find that happiness again, but one day it will just be there again and you'll feel stronger for it.


Jess [tenpenny splendid] said...

Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way.. it's hard trying to keep up appearances when you're going through something personal like this. Take the time you need for yourself. We'll be here when you get back! :)

Keri~Native Moss said...

Thinking of you sweet girl! I hope this year brings you alot of healing and happiness in your heart.


amazing photo! I dream of snow!

with love,
your opinion is VERY important for me!

Eerika said...

Kaikkia hyviä ajatuksia lähetän suuntaasi! Päivät pitenee, valo lisääntyy, löydät tiesi :)

Stephanie of Pretty {much} Art said...

Take all the time you need - we understand! Good luck to you, dear. I'm sure everything will turn out for the best.

marci said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. I find that when I'm sad sometimes it helps to try to focus on happy things to share on the blog. But then there are times when I just need to take a break. I think everyone understands.

p.s. YAY for snow! :-)

Shannon said...

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. I know how hard that can be. My thoughts are with you during these tough times. ))HUGS((


cb said...

oh sweetie, i am so sorry. i hope it was for the better. sending you much love.

Amie said...

awe, i'm sorry to hear that. I know how hard it is keeping up with your blog when going through a tough time, keep your head up! I love your new layout by the way!!

Samantha said...

i'm so sorry :( i'm sure your sick of all the condolences but breakups suck. hang in there :)

A Lost Feather said...

i hope everything works out in the best possible way, mervi :) you seem to be such a sweet and positive girl, i'm sure that will help you pull through :)

Naomi said...

oh mervi, so sorry to hear that. Distance is such a hard thing. But when one chapter ends, another begins as do the exciting opportunities that await you. You're such a beautiful and kind soul and we send you much love all the way from Australia! xo

my best friend jules said...

Thank you all for your kind words. I'm getting all teary while reading your comments. It means the world. xxx mervi

Lynn {hearted girl} said...

hey, okay, i empathize and understand your roller coaster ride of emotions. i wish you many blessings Mervi, beginning a new normal is always a big adjustment. all i can say is - you be, do, rest in the most comfortable place possible and don't forget to ask for reassurance and love from your closests when you need it. xo ♥

Krystal said...

I'm catching up on so many of your posts, your blog is always gorgeous and I can't wait to see each post. I'm sorry to hear about your relationship ending, although, these regards are long over due. But here is to spring and all things new :)

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